Bad Things Can Be Good

I used to feel down about every little thing that didn’t work out. I would get stressed and upset and sometimes even panic. Then I started to look back and I realized that some little things that upset me earlier in my life ended up being for the best. You never know what the future will bring and sometimes you can get more if things don’t go as expected.

Tenzin Gyatso, the fourteenth and current Dala...

“Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.” – Dalai Lama

I have been trying to keep this in mind all the time and I don’t feel as stressed as I used to. Here are two examples of bad things that ended up being good:

1. Not getting a room

When I was in Cardiff, I had to find a place to stay and I decided to take this room. I sent an email to the guy but he didn’t see it and gave the room to someone else. I got really stressed at the time but it ended up being for the best. I decided to move from Cardiff and got a job as a teacher in Oxford which was what I wanted. If I had stayed in Cardiff, I’d probably still be working at a nightclub since there are not many teaching jobs there.

2. Being kicked out

Fate works in funny ways. My friend had to leave her house and had nowhere to go so she ended up going home to her grandpa’s house. She spent a few weeks with him before getting a job and finding another place. About one month after my friend left, her grandpa got really ill and after some time in hospital, he passed away. If my friend hadn’t been kicked out, she wouldn’t have spent those last few weeks with her grandpa. That time they spent together meant everything to her.

Now when I don’t get the job or the room or when I’m forced to move out or when something is cancelled, I always think: it might be for the best.

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2 thoughts on “Bad Things Can Be Good

  1. Pingback: Why I Love Changes | The Happiness Box

  2. I don’t know, I might be exaggerating, but I think I could say that things that didn’t work in the past always turned out to be good later in my life. Always. Things are bad because of the present context, but when this context changes…

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